It's amazing to me when I see the staggering statistics of
divorce. You would think during these troubled times married couples
would put in the effort to bond closer together. Instead, they let
surface problems such as money drive a wedge between them.Money is one of the biggest reasons marriages turn bad, but it isn't the only reason. There are plenty other reasons why a marriage turns bad and the sad part is most of these are reasons are petty. Regardless of how petty or how serious the reason, if both people still love each other from their hearts then their marriage can survive anything it faces.
My advice to anybody involved in a bad marriage right now is to focus on the core value of love. Once you focus and put your energy into this aspect of your marriage you will quickly regain that loving relationship you once shared with your partner.
The best part about this strategy is you are effortlessly repairing your marriage. You see, marriages have to grow because as time goes on there are more challenges, obstacles, and situations that will put a lot of stress on your marriage. Love is the foundation that keeps your marriage firm, so if your love for each other doesn't continue to grow as time goes on then your marriage will begin to fall apart.
If you still truly love your partner then showing them that you love and care for them should be easy. Love is the thing that put you two together in the first place, it is what encouraged you to spend the rest of your life with partner.
So all you have to do is continue to show your partner that you still love them and if they still truly love you, they will begin to follow your lead and show you love in return. The biggest hurdle most failing marriages have to deal with is pride.
Pride keeps them from apologizing, pride keeps them from admitting they were wrong, pride keeps them from showing each other love, pride keeps them from even talking about their issues because they don't want to seem like their weak. When you take pride out of the scenario you can quickly begin to mend your relationship, because it's the only thing preventing you from showing your partner the love necessary to save your marriage.
Do nothing and let things come naturally. Forget about whatever your partner did to you that you didn't like because i'm sure they remember some things that you did that wasn't so nice either. Once this tension is out of the way let your instincts take over, the same instincts you used when you two first started out in this relationship. You will begin to repair your bad marriage by really doing nothing.
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