It's just another day, I hate it, just another day! I get up, do
my every morning thing, carry in my right hand, my coffee cup and drag
myself to the car and drive to my work.
I don't tolerate my wife to say too much because she is a "zero" and nothing else than trash can food. The moment she tries to communicate with me, I simply cut her off and finally she get the message not to bother me with all that crap and nonsense!
She is a failure anyway, so why should I listen! Live moves on day after day, after month, after year and nothing is changing. A couple of years and hopefully I'm dead, great, nobody will miss me! Whining, Whining, Whining...
No kidding, that sound like not a good relationship if you ask me, why the approach to the opposite party? A relationship is not to criticize instead help each other, lift each other, make each other feel darn good and important, as well be mindful with our thoughts.
Being on the same page with our partner is the number one requirement in order to live that united life together. We could say: "thinking and caring about each other at all time is a serious responsibility."
Being negative towards the opposite party can create as much as being positive and will affect both our life experience. Attract the beliefs and desires from each other will create harmony in any relationship.
So, is this just another moody day and who is the moody person here, both parties might ask themselves that question. Does life exist of working, criticizing, offending, down playing, I'm much better than you, yelping? NO! With capital letters.
Our success and failures are not caused by "the world out there" but by the love, care we carry inside our heart. This is not a brain surgery neither high technology and we don't need to spend years of psychoanalysis to find the way to respect.
A negative mindset drains your energy and create a self-perpetuating cycle of disappointments, worry, fear to fail and fear to make a mistake. The other site of the coin is that positive thinking creates hope and self believe. With a little bit of mental pushing power we should be able to control our mindset.
Let's sit down here for a short moment and ask our self about the person who is working and working and does not believe in quality of life, so that person spend a big time of the day in a stress full environment, get ruled by the clock, the upper level authorities, appointments, customers, fighting for its own little space in the company, and much more.
Coming home late in the evening, rest for some hours and take off the next morning again is sure not enough to unwind all the stress. So let's assume that both parties are moody the moment they are in each others neighborhood.
Here are the 15 ways to eliminate the moody moments:
You remember what I said in the beginning of this story; "The moment she tries to communicate with me, I simply cut her off and finally she get the message not to bother me with all that crap and nonsense!" Here is the answer to the problem of not being able to listen to a family member, instead simply cut off the person and depreciate that party.
Let's wrap this up and nail some solid points down that might clear the air for both individuals:
1. Don't try to do many things at once!
2. Prioritize, let them know, and do the essential things first!
3. Don't take on everything yourself!
4. Learn to say politely "No"
5. Meetings should be to the point and not dragging on!
6. Going home, close the door of your job. Coming home, take your rest for some minutes, sit down, relax, rewind, think about the daily blessings and have a little talk with your partner!
7. Be an open book for your partner and don't live a secret life created by" the life of fear to fail"
8. Don't let the job take over your life!
9. Take your days off, take a chair and sit down somewhere you can relax and dream away without any noise around you and being bothered!
10. Force yourself to exercise on a daily base and definitely on the days off!
11. Create a hobby that grabs your attention!
12. Create a mile post of accomplishment with that hobby!
13. Learn to count your blessings in life and do NOT take everything for granted!
14. Do not answer the cell phone on your days off!
15. Fight for your own space in life and do not allow others to influence you and make a different "You" out of "You"
Here you have it, I didn't leave any ingredient out!
Good Luck and Cheers!
I don't tolerate my wife to say too much because she is a "zero" and nothing else than trash can food. The moment she tries to communicate with me, I simply cut her off and finally she get the message not to bother me with all that crap and nonsense!
She is a failure anyway, so why should I listen! Live moves on day after day, after month, after year and nothing is changing. A couple of years and hopefully I'm dead, great, nobody will miss me! Whining, Whining, Whining...
No kidding, that sound like not a good relationship if you ask me, why the approach to the opposite party? A relationship is not to criticize instead help each other, lift each other, make each other feel darn good and important, as well be mindful with our thoughts.
Being on the same page with our partner is the number one requirement in order to live that united life together. We could say: "thinking and caring about each other at all time is a serious responsibility."
Being negative towards the opposite party can create as much as being positive and will affect both our life experience. Attract the beliefs and desires from each other will create harmony in any relationship.
So, is this just another moody day and who is the moody person here, both parties might ask themselves that question. Does life exist of working, criticizing, offending, down playing, I'm much better than you, yelping? NO! With capital letters.
Our success and failures are not caused by "the world out there" but by the love, care we carry inside our heart. This is not a brain surgery neither high technology and we don't need to spend years of psychoanalysis to find the way to respect.
A negative mindset drains your energy and create a self-perpetuating cycle of disappointments, worry, fear to fail and fear to make a mistake. The other site of the coin is that positive thinking creates hope and self believe. With a little bit of mental pushing power we should be able to control our mindset.
Let's sit down here for a short moment and ask our self about the person who is working and working and does not believe in quality of life, so that person spend a big time of the day in a stress full environment, get ruled by the clock, the upper level authorities, appointments, customers, fighting for its own little space in the company, and much more.
Coming home late in the evening, rest for some hours and take off the next morning again is sure not enough to unwind all the stress. So let's assume that both parties are moody the moment they are in each others neighborhood.
Here are the 15 ways to eliminate the moody moments:
You remember what I said in the beginning of this story; "The moment she tries to communicate with me, I simply cut her off and finally she get the message not to bother me with all that crap and nonsense!" Here is the answer to the problem of not being able to listen to a family member, instead simply cut off the person and depreciate that party.
Let's wrap this up and nail some solid points down that might clear the air for both individuals:
1. Don't try to do many things at once!
2. Prioritize, let them know, and do the essential things first!
3. Don't take on everything yourself!
4. Learn to say politely "No"
5. Meetings should be to the point and not dragging on!
6. Going home, close the door of your job. Coming home, take your rest for some minutes, sit down, relax, rewind, think about the daily blessings and have a little talk with your partner!
7. Be an open book for your partner and don't live a secret life created by" the life of fear to fail"
8. Don't let the job take over your life!
9. Take your days off, take a chair and sit down somewhere you can relax and dream away without any noise around you and being bothered!
10. Force yourself to exercise on a daily base and definitely on the days off!
11. Create a hobby that grabs your attention!
12. Create a mile post of accomplishment with that hobby!
13. Learn to count your blessings in life and do NOT take everything for granted!
14. Do not answer the cell phone on your days off!
15. Fight for your own space in life and do not allow others to influence you and make a different "You" out of "You"
Here you have it, I didn't leave any ingredient out!
Good Luck and Cheers!
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