The greatest gift in a marriage is commitment and an ability to
understand conflict in marriage. Commitment is the glue that holds a
marriage together, understanding conflict is the first step to overcome
negative behaviors.
Commitment in a marriage is a choice by one or both partners. Hopefully both will agree on this and always maintain that spirit. If communication has broken down and negative behaviors have crept in to the relationship then some work will need to be done in order to revive the marriage.
Conflict will be present in even the best marriages. A couple that says they never have conflict is either in denial or they just aren't really living. Unfortunately when couples think of conflict they will often attach negative connotations to it. A better way to understand conflict in marriage would be to look at it introspectively.
In the face of conflict, ask yourself, what is the underlying issue? What lesson should I learn from this conflict? How can this conflict provide me with valuable insight and a better understanding of myself and my partner in order to address it and move forward positively?
Shifting the focus from the negative aspects of the conflict to the potential opportunity it presents changes the atmosphere of a marriage. A couple that begins to communicate in this way will be less likely to lash out in conflict and perpetuate negative behaviors. The nature of communication should always be in an effort to understand and move forward.
A great marriage is a gift. The gift needs to be nurtured and cared for to survive and thrive. Growing closer through conflict is an opportunity. Grasp it and continue to grow with your partner. Seek the knowledge of those who can help you move in the right direction, especially when you feel you are alone in your efforts.
Commitment in a marriage is a choice by one or both partners. Hopefully both will agree on this and always maintain that spirit. If communication has broken down and negative behaviors have crept in to the relationship then some work will need to be done in order to revive the marriage.
Conflict will be present in even the best marriages. A couple that says they never have conflict is either in denial or they just aren't really living. Unfortunately when couples think of conflict they will often attach negative connotations to it. A better way to understand conflict in marriage would be to look at it introspectively.
In the face of conflict, ask yourself, what is the underlying issue? What lesson should I learn from this conflict? How can this conflict provide me with valuable insight and a better understanding of myself and my partner in order to address it and move forward positively?
Shifting the focus from the negative aspects of the conflict to the potential opportunity it presents changes the atmosphere of a marriage. A couple that begins to communicate in this way will be less likely to lash out in conflict and perpetuate negative behaviors. The nature of communication should always be in an effort to understand and move forward.
A great marriage is a gift. The gift needs to be nurtured and cared for to survive and thrive. Growing closer through conflict is an opportunity. Grasp it and continue to grow with your partner. Seek the knowledge of those who can help you move in the right direction, especially when you feel you are alone in your efforts.
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