Is your marriage broken and heading for divorce? Well I can help
you fix that. If BOTH you and your partner are willing to solve your
conflicts and work through your problems. No one said marriage would be
an easy ride. Sometimes we're led to believe that marriage is easy.
Those Hollywood movies make marriages look like fairy tales. But in
reality it takes a lot of hard work from both the husband and wife to
create a happy marriage. In this article I'm going to provide you with
some tips that will help you fix your broken marriage.
Tip #1: Analyze what went wrong. What has caused your marriage to end up like this? You need to identify the root problem. Once you know what it is. You need to fix it. Don't blame your partner. Take steps to solve the problem.
Tip #2: Saying sorry and admit when you're in the wrong. If you have caused an argument, then you are at fault, and you should apologise for it. You shouldn't be blaming your partner for the mistakes that you have made. Admit you've made mistakes, apologise, and take steps to ensure those mistakes are not made again.
Tip #3: Effective communication is key. Too many married couples aren't communicating effectively. Talking about what you're going to watch on TV isn't effective communication. Sharing your feelings and telling each other how your day went IS effective communication.
If you use the above tips, you can take steps towards fixing your broken marriage. And only after you've implemented the tips can you start to have unconditional love for each other. If your situation is beyond the point of being fixed by simple tips. I recommend you seek marriage counselling. Or you can pick up a self help book that you can both read and implement. Good luck.
Tip #1: Analyze what went wrong. What has caused your marriage to end up like this? You need to identify the root problem. Once you know what it is. You need to fix it. Don't blame your partner. Take steps to solve the problem.
Tip #2: Saying sorry and admit when you're in the wrong. If you have caused an argument, then you are at fault, and you should apologise for it. You shouldn't be blaming your partner for the mistakes that you have made. Admit you've made mistakes, apologise, and take steps to ensure those mistakes are not made again.
Tip #3: Effective communication is key. Too many married couples aren't communicating effectively. Talking about what you're going to watch on TV isn't effective communication. Sharing your feelings and telling each other how your day went IS effective communication.
If you use the above tips, you can take steps towards fixing your broken marriage. And only after you've implemented the tips can you start to have unconditional love for each other. If your situation is beyond the point of being fixed by simple tips. I recommend you seek marriage counselling. Or you can pick up a self help book that you can both read and implement. Good luck.
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