We try not to to see the signs. We sometimes even ignore the
obvious. But the reality is that 1 in every 2 relationships ends because
of an affair. Men cheat on women and women cheat on men. It's been
going on since the dawn of humanity and nothing we say or do will stop
the cheating.
But we can prevent ourselves from continuing on in a relationship that has disaster written all over it. We just have to see the signs, find the truth, and run like hell. The next few paragraphs will outline the top 3 reasons why your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend is out there messing' around behind your back. The sooner you wake up and see this relationship for what it really is - adultery - the sooner you can move on to find that real soulmate. Believe me, he/she is out there. You just have to have the courage to move on.
The number one reason why partners cheat is that there is something missing in the bedroom. Now that doesn't mean that it is your fault by any means. You may just be dating or married to a freak. Your partner may be into things secretly that you will never know about. And things may be different if there was better communication but most people who hold secrets do so for a reason. They don't want anyone to know. Now the rationale in a cheater's mind is that what they are doing is OK because their significant other would go bananas at the thought of such sexual deviance. In this case, you are better off without that person. relationships are founded upon honesty and if there isn't 100% honesty in yours then it is doomed.
Reason number 2 is that the person your spouse/partner is hooking up with pays more attention to them than you do. And we as humans sometimes need validation. If you are not going that extra mile to see to it that your partners emotional needs are met, then chances are that at some point they will seek it out elsewhere. Remember just because it doesn't matter to you doesn't mean it doesn't matter to them. Spend 10 minutes a day pretending you were your partner and ask yourself what would i like my man or woman to do for me today?
Finally, the third reason why people cheat is for the thrill of it. Let's face it when a relationship starts you are thinking every moment of every day about what you can do that would be special or exciting with your lover. As years go by the spark turns to spud and when presented with the opportunity to get some excitement back in their lives the cheater cheats. Now, no one is condoning this behavior but it doesn't change the fact that it still is a real reason why your partner is cheating.
Try your best to keep open lines of communication, keep things at least luke-warm in the bedroom, or maybe once in a blue moon sneak up on your partner, blindfold him or her and get busy right then and there in the kitchen, bathroom, wherever. Go the extra mile and keep him/her wanting more so they don't have to go find it somewhere else.
But we can prevent ourselves from continuing on in a relationship that has disaster written all over it. We just have to see the signs, find the truth, and run like hell. The next few paragraphs will outline the top 3 reasons why your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend is out there messing' around behind your back. The sooner you wake up and see this relationship for what it really is - adultery - the sooner you can move on to find that real soulmate. Believe me, he/she is out there. You just have to have the courage to move on.
The number one reason why partners cheat is that there is something missing in the bedroom. Now that doesn't mean that it is your fault by any means. You may just be dating or married to a freak. Your partner may be into things secretly that you will never know about. And things may be different if there was better communication but most people who hold secrets do so for a reason. They don't want anyone to know. Now the rationale in a cheater's mind is that what they are doing is OK because their significant other would go bananas at the thought of such sexual deviance. In this case, you are better off without that person. relationships are founded upon honesty and if there isn't 100% honesty in yours then it is doomed.
Reason number 2 is that the person your spouse/partner is hooking up with pays more attention to them than you do. And we as humans sometimes need validation. If you are not going that extra mile to see to it that your partners emotional needs are met, then chances are that at some point they will seek it out elsewhere. Remember just because it doesn't matter to you doesn't mean it doesn't matter to them. Spend 10 minutes a day pretending you were your partner and ask yourself what would i like my man or woman to do for me today?
Finally, the third reason why people cheat is for the thrill of it. Let's face it when a relationship starts you are thinking every moment of every day about what you can do that would be special or exciting with your lover. As years go by the spark turns to spud and when presented with the opportunity to get some excitement back in their lives the cheater cheats. Now, no one is condoning this behavior but it doesn't change the fact that it still is a real reason why your partner is cheating.
Try your best to keep open lines of communication, keep things at least luke-warm in the bedroom, or maybe once in a blue moon sneak up on your partner, blindfold him or her and get busy right then and there in the kitchen, bathroom, wherever. Go the extra mile and keep him/her wanting more so they don't have to go find it somewhere else.
If you feel like your spouse/partner is cheating on you and its
ripping apart your insides because you don't actually have proof then
visit [http://www.affairsexposed.com] and I promise you will find the
truth. Best of luck in your current relationship. I hope it lasts
forever.
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